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To My Muslim Relatives & Friends... Wishing you a pleasant and wonderful Hari Raya! Drive safe...

The tidy room on Saturday. urs Trully just finished tidying up and knew that the Typhoon will strike again but just not sure when. The Typhoon Kyran, two days later doing his creative way in making his room a mess... again... =(( Sometimes I feel like screaming my heads off especially when the incident of picture two happened ~X( . When I asked son to tidy his room, he gave me a screaming and shouting NO... Me: Kyran, please tidy your room. Son: NO! *shouting* Me: Please Kyran. You are a good boy kan? Son: Me, naughty boy not good boy. Me: If Kyran don't tidy the room, who's going to tidy it? Son: Mummy tidy! See... Ishhhhh... X( Son likes to bully me... sometimes literally... You can see him messing my hair during mass which is not cool at all... He sometimes make me his punching bag which sometimes made me afraid of what if I have a baby in my tummy. How can I make Son understand that he shouldn't do that to mummy? :-

My Baby, first time saw real-life chicks. Come here chicky chicks!

I was intrigued about the outcome of this Quiz posted by TT who got it from Nessa (Hi Nessa!) and so I did it too. What Your Handbag Says About You You tend to be relaxed throughout the day. You are naturally at peace. You are a high maintenance person Me? High maintenance? I don't think so . You feel lost outside of your normal environment I feel lost all the time :D . You are a very creative person Serius bah! . Your life tends to be a whirlwind, but you always seem to pull it together There might be some truth in here :P . You are practical and down to earth. You tend to be a rather reserved and quiet person Ntalah... Macam Salah ja what my handbag reflects on me . Check out the Quiz here

I've been tagged by Illiyana ... The Rules 1) Link to your tagger and post these rules on your blog. 2) Share 7 facts about yourself on your blog, some random, some weird. 3) Tag 7 people at the end of your post by leaving their names as well as links to their blogs. 4) Let them know they are tagged by leaving a comment on their blog. Here it goes :D :- Random Fact ONe - I'm a mother to a very hyperactive son of 3+ years old. His granduncle even said that if Kyran were to stay in Australia, he would have been injected because he's so hyperactive to calm him down... punyalah!!! Random Fact tWo - I'm married to my high school sweetheart who is the total opposite of me in character. Random Fact tHree - I love to read... I have phases of reading for example I can read 5 sappy novels in a month and then jumped to Agatha Christie's books and finished 7 in one month then jumped to Chicken Soup for the soul which I have three and finished in two weeks. Then I'll get so ...

I’m fortunate that my life has mingled with these strong women and when I’m in the pit and I need some uplifting, these are the women that I look to. Strong woman Number One: wo de mama Mum had raised eight children all by herself. Although she was chased by a certain Sarawakian Guy back when I was a little girl, she ignored the guy. I’m astounded by her faith in God and although sometimes she gives me the headache with all her antics but her sacrifice for me all these years are unmeasurable. Strong woman Number Two Her husband cheated on her and she’s willing to take him back. She has NO Loving & Understanding Relationship with her husband and even her impressionable children commented that their daddy doesn’t love their mummy but she stayed on because Marriage is a Sacrament . Daily, she’s praying hard for her husband. I really look up to this strong lady… Because of her, I’m counting my blessing and trying not to take my hunky for granted. Strong Woman Number Three She was from ...

:) If this works I would like to thank this Blogger for sharing this cool trick... A standing oVation =D> needed to be given to this generous blogger.... Let me try them out:- :D for emotions barring the teeth =)) for stupid stuff that sends me rolling on the floor :P for being cheeky :)) laughing to my hearts contents If it doesn't work then I must have gotten things wrong... Damn... Mundong Po: YEAH, YEAH, YEAH... I GOT IT RIGHT! :D

because of Diego, my son now knows a bit of spanish (but I don't think he understand the meaning yet) ... and because we're living in the same crib and son watches the Diego DVD over and over and over again... we're also in the know of a few spanish words like:- vamos which means go volar which means fly uno, dos, tres, cuatro, cinco, seis which are one, two, three, four, five, six What else??? Those are the only words that I can remember but I'm sure with me taking care of son for the next three consecutive solid days: I'll be learning a lot...

I feel like crying *okay, I’m exaggerating*… Thank you Izan for this wonderful Award and for making me feel worthy *okay, too much. I know*. Thanks Izan… So I was a bit blur ‘coz I have no idea what is the award about what I know it’s in Spanish and unfortunately I don’t know any Spanish word so I’ll google them and find out what is the Award actually is…. so from here , the direct translation would be este blog investe e accredita na… proximidade this blog invest and accredits na… proximity which means what exactly??? Hmm… proximity means near and accredits means to recognize… In lay person term it means that my blog is awarded for being near? Okay, I’m more blurred than before… Well to fulfill the message I’m passing this Award to these wonderful bloggers who have made my life colourful with their shared anecdotes of life… "They all are charmed with the blogs, where in the majority of its aims are to show the marvels and to do friendship; there are persons who are not interested...

I'm feeling Blessed!!! When I think how life used to be Always walking in the shadows Then I look at what you've given me I feel like dancing on my tip toesI must say everyday I wake and realize you're by my sideI know I'm truly... Blessed for everything you've given me Blessed for all the tenderness you show Do my best with every breath that's in me Blessed to make sure you never go There are times that test your faith Till you think you might surrender Baby I'm, I'm not ashamed to say that my hopes were growing slender You walked by in the knick of time looking like an answered prayer You know I'm truly... Blessed for everything you've given me Blessed for all the tenderness you show Do my best with every breath that's in me Blessed to make sure you never go Blessed with love and understanding Blessed when i hear you call my name( i hear you call my name) I'll do my best with faith that's never ending Blessed to make sure you feel t...

Dear Precious, I know I don't have to say anything. Words will never be able to describe how you feel right now. I'm also devastated... I know you're hurting... I know that you feel the world is againts you. I know you feel that it is not fair... Isn't it IRONIC? I know you feel like banging or hurling yourself... I know... They say time heals all wounds and it does... over a long stretch of many months, it does... sadly to say that the scar will still be there and at times, at odd moments the scar reminds you of the heartaches of things that are not meant to be... and you will feel the hurt again... it won't hurt as much as it hurts now but it still hurts... I am the proof of that... The tears will never cease to trickled down... As I told you before, we will never know the whys but we must believe and have faith that it is for the best and God knows best. You have to give it to the Lord or you will not be able to heal. Trust Me... I know... I am always here... ...

Yeah yeah yeah… I got duit raya… and it’s RM50… who in this lifetime will give a duit raya, RM50 to a married working woman? Only he does… To my Sultan: Thank you so much… Love you xoxo… I’m so materialistic kan??? I’m a woman! I can’t help it… hehehe… so with this extra ka-ching, I think a new blouse is needed just to remember this momentous event… hehehe…

Seriously I fell in love again... It is so smart, so smooth that I just had to have it... It fulfill all my requirements on a phone... the only thing that stopped me is that I'm not sure on the price yet. My Requirement:- 1) Sleek - checked 2) Smart - checked 3) Camera - checked (it shouts 5Megapixel, has flash) 4) Touch Screen - Checked (finger friendly... Stylus not needed) 5) Big Screen - Double checked (it can be viewed potrait or landscape) 6) Memory - Checked (Built-in 8G/16G & external MSD) 7) Entertainment - Checked (I like the MP3 and the MPeg4) 8) Slim - Checked I think Samsung Omnia i900 is the bomb! so sleek, so stylish... I hope I have extra moolah to splurge myself... Christmas cum Birthday Present for urs truly? *fingers crossed*

My Boy Author: Amanda Rodriguez When I learned that you were coming I was sure that you would be, the most wonderful and precious child that I would ever see. I was fearful, but excited, I was anxious, but prepared, to hold you in my arms and show you just how much I cared. And when the day finally came, my heart was filled with joy, to see that you were made for me, my perfect little boy. Now as the years are passing, you surprise me everyday, by showing me that I can love you in so many different ways.

My current WANT is to WIN the Mega Sports ToTo 6/52 now worth RM20M!!! Typing that RM20M has made me drool... Pathetic I know!!! Gosh... Is that my saliva dripping on my keypad? Damn, it is *okay, I'm exagerating*... If we were to win that RM20M, I want:- 1) our own Landed CriB (with a big kitchen and Big lawn) 2) my own Silver or Black BMW X5 3) our own Ticket To Indulgence preferably to Maldives, Greece, Turkey etc Okay I have lots of wants with that RM20M but I can't write them all as it will be a very loooooonggggg post. I need to head of to sleep now and dream our RM20M... What to do? I can only DREAM..... BOOOoHoooooO....

Have you read the news? Check this and this and this out! It's preposterous... This is so mind-numbing and I was loss for words when hunky told me. Pity Ms Tan Hoon Cheng... She's only doing her job...

I feel so helpless… I wish I could be with her right now… Just hug her. I don’t have to say anything because she knows I know how she feels… I feel so damn helpless. I don't know what to say to ease the pain and the hurt but what I can do is just be there for her. Let her know that we all love her and with her especially in this trying time... I'm so sorry... so Sorry... When she says that life is so cruel... I know, I've been there too... At that time, I believe that life isn't fair but we have to trust GOD. Her first call of uncertainties was ended by a prayer that I hoped will give her strength... Her second call of confirmation was ended with me loss for words and she crying... I really hate this feeling of I can't do anything for her... I wish I'm there with her... I hope she knows we're with her.

Uncounted Blessings© Jill Wolf Whenever we gather together, The words are not easy to find, But love speaks a common language When people have ties that bind. We don't always say what we're feeling As often as families should; We don't count our blessings out loud, But somehow they're understood. We know that we're thankful for living With the comfort of each other's care; We're grateful for memories and stories, And the jokes that our family shares. We might leave a promise unspoken, But we know that we're loyal and true; We can count on companions through life, In the sunshine and shadows, too. We might show some special attention To a stranger, acquaintance, or guest, But we never forget in our hearts About those that we really love best. These blessings can never be counted Like money or gold dividends; They can only be shared as the love That exists when families are friends.

I had a “fight” (note the inverted commas) with hunky this morning. He was complaining that I am not an obedient wife… Puhleeaseee... I’m making his life wonderful and filled with spices with all my antics and told him that to his face but NO he replied… He wants an obedient wife. Hunky is the total opposite of me… While I was de-stressing myself blog-hopping I found this in UManja ’s blog. Should I be afraid? Is this an indicator that my blissful marriage will not last? Nah… It’s what you make of your marriage… I know both hunky and I are two different peeps and I always get on his nerves but I don’t think he can survive without me in his life… He’ll be happy with an obedient wife I know but that will be soooooo booooooorrriiiiiiing… Who then will make him feel alive with anger, alive with laughter etc??? I am the perfect mate for him (although he disagree on this… he says that he’s a superior being and I always laughed back at him and say “yes, you’re the supir being”. I love my hunk...

Do you have an outfit a day for the whole month laid out in your wardrobe? To my greatest horror Rian made a remark about this yesterday which really makes me wonder. He made fun of me because I wear the same outfit twice in a month… WTF??? He was telling everybody in the club that he will never be caught wearing an outfit twice in a month!!!... I was flabbergasted… so what lah if I wear an outfit three times in a month??? Why do you care? Ish… Although I had my blasé look but it pricked me a little… well as the wise man says ‘FOff” hehehe…

This is so true for me as well… I’m one of the KDM who uses the Bazaar version of the Kadazan Language… How sad is that??? And they say “Jangan Salahkan Ibu Mengandung.” Well I am blaming my mom for my incompetence. Now she’s doing the same thing to my son… I have numerous times requested mum to speak Kadazan to my son but no she speaks to him in English… duh betul… I can utter a few words of Kadazan and that’s about it… I have no sense of its grammar at all… I attempted to speak Kadazan during my wedding reception thanking my mom for all that she has done for me but I don’t think I successfully conveyed my deepest appreciation to her because my Kadazan was ‘tunggang tabalik’… Looking back, I think my mum just nodded her head without understanding what I blab about and accepting the bouquet of roses that we presented to her… dang… I know that hope is not lost for me. I can always enroll myself in such program as this. I’ll make a promise that I will but someday…

Clipping from Daily Express

I had an interesting sms from somebody who are very close to my heart... She is so floating in the air and she wants the same thing for me and hubby... She advise that for a more blissful marriage, hang our wedding picture above our bed. She said that somebody told her about this and although she only hanged her wedding picture for the past two days she can readily tell me that her marriage are now extra special with lots of extra spices... Hmm, I must try this 'petua'. Currently our wedding pictures are in the store room since the day we move in to our new crib. Can I persuade hunky to hang the Wedding Picture now when we've already decided to wait until all our pictures are in order?.. I 'll ask him tonight... Here is a toast " For A Blissful Marriage!"

All good things must come to an end and at last it does for us… The Green colored that has been featured for the past eight months has ended today when it turned into yellow…. Argh… this is not good at all especially when my segment is in the red… RED which is not a good color at all in my circumstances… I know that RED indicates prosperity bla, bla, bla but in our war room report it means we’re underachieving… What am I gonna do??? Thinking out of the Box can really help me at this point of time but the sad thing is I’m not inventive enough to think of something… I was sort in a panic attack just now… I literally couldn’t breathe for a few seconds especially seeing RED colored on the report.

We went to ‘sinsang’ last Tuesday just to check on my well-being. She said that my womb is cold and most probably that’s the reason why Kyvan didn’t survive the whole nine months… so now I’m on a strict diet of NO COLD FOOD & DRINKS . Basically in Chinese there are certain type of veges that are considered cold like cucumber and … ok, see I don’t even know what type of food I shouldn’t consumed… The nice ‘Sinsang’ gave me 30 packets of tablets to be consumed for the next 10 days and we’re keeping our fingers crossed that this time there will be no more heartaches like my 2nd pregnancy…

Dear Jane, Wished You Were Here! We had our 2nd Sisters' Lunch this year in Little Italy and decided we like it very much to have it in a monthly basis. Hope you can join us soon! Love; Your Sisters ;-)

“And don’t tell me you’re sorry cuz you’re not Baby when I know you’re only sorry you got caught But you put on quite a show You really had me goin’ But now it’s time to go Curtains finally closin’ That was quite a show Very entertainin’ But it’s over now Go on and take a bow And the award for the best liar goes to you For makin’ me believe That you could be Faithful to me Let’s hear your speech Oh… I love this song not because it speaks to me but because of the melodious note. But still I have to agree that this happens in most of the relationships out there but the question is why do they do it??? Why do you want to cheat behind your spouse or partner? I have a hypothesis which can be a theory if it’s proven true… I had a discussion about this with Longlegs the other day and she said that most probably people in relationship had come into a rut and they see their relationship as a day to day occurrence without any spices to flavor them. You know just bland!!! I think there is some tr...

“You live you learn You love you learn You cry you learn You lose you learn You bleed you learn You scream you learn You grieve you learn You choke you learn You laugh you learn You choose you learn You pray you learn You ask you learn You live you learn” I’m reaching thirty and I’m still learning about life… when will you ever get to the stage that you can honestly say that you have learnt everything that can be learnt? NEVER, I suppose… Lesson learnt is something wonderful but when you have learnt and forgot about the lesson and make the stupidest mistake of doing it again now that’s really STUPID… I’m one of the stupid peeps who does that but I’m glad to say I don’t do that often (I hope but I might without realizing it!) So work has been hectic and crazy… the only reason I can put jumbled thoughts into this post is because our systems are currently chaotic… due to that some of my colleagues are updating their songs, one in particular is playing games… the rest making themselves loo...