MumMy iN LovE...

My 3rd post of the day… it’s lunch time okay so I can do whatever I please during this hour… As depicted by the comic, almost all women that I know are concerned with the way they look and I’m one of the typical women out there… sometimes you just wish that you’re born svelte and gob-smacking beautiful but we’re not living in some fairy-tale that all ends in Happily Ever After… We’re stuck with how we’re born with *unless you have gazillions of moolahs in the bank and don’t mind doing plastic surgery etc*… thank goodness we are born with unique personality… and that attracts the opposite sex after the overall first glance of our physical appearance meets his requirements. That’s typical male!!! I’m digressing from my original title, I just wanna thank my Hunky for accepting blessed fate and stayed with me for better and for worse. With all my lack points in all important areas; I think he’s here with me and strong to stay. I know our marriage is not as rosy as people might have imagin...

Sempena minggu Valentine ini dan Valentine bukan sahaja untuk sepasang kekasih tetapi ia juga merujuk kepada segala bentuk cinta, jadi seharusnya kita juga mencintai Bahasa Ibunda Kita iaitu Bahasa Malaysia. Sukar untuk saya menyatakan isi hati ini tetapi akan di usahakan sehabis baiknya. Seperti hari-hari yang lalu, kerja pejabat tidak sesibuk mana. Saya masih mampu untuk pergi melayari internet dan pada masa yang sama menyiapkan kerja pejabat. Inilah karenah pekerja zaman IT kini: jam bekerja di isi dengan sepenuhnya. Otak ini kosong namun jari jemari mempunyai akalnya sendiri. Sepuluh jari ini masih ingin mengetuk papan kekunci. Biarlah saya mengakhiri catatan ini dengan pantun karangan sendiri, jika diteruskan pasti otak menjadi tidak keruan:- Bahasa Malaysia Bahasa Kita, Gunakan lah dengan Penuh Cinta, Jangan Malu dan Janganlah Berpura-pura, Bahasa Malaysia ada KeIstimewaannya...

I sms SanBro this morning:- Morning Dy... Hari ni kah or tmrw tat ur bday? Anyways... Happy Birthday! May all u wish n thrives for come true in buckets full. Love u : ) This is his reply:- O thks! Tmrow, but better earlier that never! Love u The thing is I can't for the life of me remember saying verbally or written I Love u to him before or any of my brothers for that matter... We've never been that kind of open with our feelings. I can't seem to understand why all of a sudden I've become transparent... I suppose it's a good thing. I think he sort of knew that I Love him but I suppose it's a given that you will love your own kin right? but again can you postively say that your siblings love you??? care yes but love??? Love is such an abstract thing!!! Receiving his reply was such a jumpstart to my day... It's funny but true... This is my brother who sent Congratulation Card when I scored 4As in PMR (or was it UPSR)... and YES I still keep it... This is th...

I feel so helpless… I wish I could be with her right now… Just hug her. I don’t have to say anything because she knows I know how she feels… I feel so damn helpless. I don't know what to say to ease the pain and the hurt but what I can do is just be there for her. Let her know that we all love her and with her especially in this trying time... I'm so sorry... so Sorry... When she says that life is so cruel... I know, I've been there too... At that time, I believe that life isn't fair but we have to trust GOD. Her first call of uncertainties was ended by a prayer that I hoped will give her strength... Her second call of confirmation was ended with me loss for words and she crying... I really hate this feeling of I can't do anything for her... I wish I'm there with her... I hope she knows we're with her.

I had a “fight” (note the inverted commas) with hunky this morning. He was complaining that I am not an obedient wife… Puhleeaseee... I’m making his life wonderful and filled with spices with all my antics and told him that to his face but NO he replied… He wants an obedient wife. Hunky is the total opposite of me… While I was de-stressing myself blog-hopping I found this in UManja ’s blog. Should I be afraid? Is this an indicator that my blissful marriage will not last? Nah… It’s what you make of your marriage… I know both hunky and I are two different peeps and I always get on his nerves but I don’t think he can survive without me in his life… He’ll be happy with an obedient wife I know but that will be soooooo booooooorrriiiiiiing… Who then will make him feel alive with anger, alive with laughter etc??? I am the perfect mate for him (although he disagree on this… he says that he’s a superior being and I always laughed back at him and say “yes, you’re the supir being”. I love my hunk...