We’re caught in the middle… my mom is a Kadazan and my in-laws are Chinese… my mom said I cannot consume wined chicken soup until Kyle is a month old or when his umbilical cord falls down. My in-laws are adamant that I consume wined chicken soup for the whole confinement month. It boggles the mind why mom is suddenly against the wine??? I didn’t have this problem during my eldest son *I love the sound of that – my eldest son*… I know I’m fully breastfeeding and the probability of Kyle getting the ‘lihing’ in his blood is high but I did read in the internet that the alcohol might evaporate when they’re cooked… I see Kyle is active from time to time and lucid… his big eyes looking at me asking things that I cannot decipher yet… I’m no mind-reader… Que sera sera… What ever will be will be… My mum requested to be sent home today because she can't stand witnessing her daughter consuming the 'soup'... *Loud sigh*... I'm tired thinking of pleasing both parents... I just told m...